Thursday, December 20, 2007

The rap video that Cpt. Adam Snyder's brother Evan made is posted here, along with the memorial service and other videos that were shown. The service lasted for two hours (the fast forward and rewind were a little tricky on my computer). Evan speaks for quite a while toward the beginning of the service and you should watch at least that part and Evan's video.

After I watched myself speaking I thought "I'll never do that again!" I look so old and frumpy -- but I feel so young and fit. I said "July of 2007" when I should have said "July of 2000." I have a "familial tremor" and noticeably shake all the time. Given the emotions of that day it was much more obvious. I wasn't very nervous, just very sad for this family. Adam was such an all around great person and now he's gone.

I also think -- what gives me the right to speak at these funerals. Most "presenters" read the script and present the banners in 2-3 minutes. For some reason I feel motivated to gather information about the soldier and speak about his accomplishments and read very little of the script. Oh well.

4 comments:

Sarge Charlie said...

I do believe you will have a very Merry Christmas

Linda said...

I'm a new Over 50 Blogger, so I stopped in to say Merry Christmas! Sounds like your speaking role is very sad, but you do put so much heart and thought into it - I'm sure it means alot to the families! We are spending Christmas with my nephew who is a Lt Commander in the Navy. He just got back from Iraq - so we can relate to your fears!

Sarge Charlie said...

Here is hoping you woke up on the Christmas morning and found all you children around you, big smile mom, you earned it........

Anonymous said...

As a Army mom (BlueStarmom also) who will be pinning Butter bars on my son next week, my heart goes out to this family. We know all that this brave young man had to go through to become a Capt. in the Army. God bless you for your time presenting Gold Star banners to the greiving fms.
Proud Army Florida mom